Donna Kelly Writes

Author, Speaker, Theater Critic

Giving Thanks: The Challenges and Blessings of a Writer’s Life


Each day before I eat breakfast, run, or begin working, I spend time giving thanks for the extraordinary blessings I’ve been given. Sometimes I focus on the big gifts, like the good health of a friend celebrating her 8th cancer-free year, and other times I acknowledge the little things that make life easier, perhaps the Post-it notes that keep me organized or my how my favorite pen writes perfectly every time.

As Thanksgiving celebrations begin, I’m considering the much appreciated but often unsung blessings enriching my writing life. Sometimes they seem to get lost in deadlines, contests, bill paying, and other daily tasks, but I know they’re always in the background quietly making a difference in my life.
The writing life, as exhilarating and satisfying as it can be, is not without its challenges:

• Writing requires long periods of solitude which often puts a damper on a social life.
• Sitting in a chair in front of the computer for hours has physical implications, including weight gain, eye strain, and back and neck issues.
• Writing can be tough on self-confidence and self-worth when publishers and agents reject manuscripts and queries, reviewers pan your book, or negative comments show up on social media.
• Sometimes authors become so focused they lose a little bit of themselves.

These can take a toll on writers who become so wrapped up in the process that they don’t take time or find opportunities to enjoy the path.

I’m thankful to have a terrific support team: My family, friends and former colleagues, and writing buddies. They’ve found me freelance jobs, recommended me for speaking engagements, and edited and critiqued my books and articles. They’ve also been my cheerleaders, coffee and chocolate suppliers, task masters, and enforcers of fun time.

Bellamy and Computer

In addition to these much-loved and respected people in my life, I also give thanks for these blessings:

A return to running and my faithful running buddy, Laura Griffith. This wise and wonderful woman not only makes sure I get my three runs in per week, but also serves as a sounding board for anything rolling around in my mind. Running clears my head, improves my thinking, and counteracts the often sedentary lifestyle of a writer.
My fulfilling position as writer-in-residence at Sidestreet Studio. Artist Tinia Clark generously provides a place for me to teach writing courses and lead a writers group as well as mingle with artists and other creatives. She lures me out of my writing cave for monthly soirees and poetry readings at the studio.
The joys of monthly book club meetings. I’ve never been much of a joiner, but this year a writer friend invited me to her book club after I told her of my need to make time to read and socialize. It’s a small group including women of varying ages, occupations, and interests. They welcomed me into their fold and I’ve enjoyed the books, conversation, and food – there’s always something interesting to discuss and scrumptious to taste!
The calming influence of the salt rock lamp. The soft warm glow of this gorgeous lamp alleviates my allergies, improves my mental awareness, and helps me stay serene in the midst of deadline crunch or massive re-writes. I keep it on the corner of my desk and I sometimes I swear it lights my way through challenging chapters.
The loving companionship of my trusty kitty Bellamy. I’m not sure who rescued whom when this emaciated, starving yet adorable and sweet, abandoned cat showed up on my deck nearly two years ago. It didn’t take him long to charm himself into my food supply, screened deck, and finally the entire house – not to mention my heart! He checks on me frequently throughout the day and often sprawls on my desk in front of the computer monitor so I don’t get lonely.

Every day I give thanks for the life I lead and the blessings keeping my writing on track. They motivate me to stay physically, mentally, emotionally, and socially healthy and strong.

Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours!

The Punny Spirit of Dr. Paul Bearer II: He’s Still Lurking for You!

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He’s back!

Well, sort of.

For nearly 25 years, radio executive Dick Bennick, Sr. delighted fans as Dr. Paul Bearer, host of WTOG’s Saturday afternoon horror fest Creature Feature. Growing up, young Richard Eric Koon was one of the thousands of fans in the Tampa Bay area who tuned in to watch the frightfully punny host introduce and provide commentary on “horrible old” B movies.

The show ended after Bennick’s death in 1995, but like many fans, Koon never forgot the good-hearted, humorous host who filled his youthful Saturday afternoons. Years later, after marrying and starting a family, Koon began donning a Dr. Paul Bearer costume – complete with the creepy but hilarious makeup and slicked-back, center-parted hair – on Halloween. After numerous requests from friends and family, he purchased an old tux and a 1994 Lincoln Hearse, and began appearing in local community events in 2008. By 2010, he was a favorite in parades.

With respect to Bennick and blessed with well-wishes from his widow, Patty Bennick, Koon adopted the moniker Dr. Paul Bearer II.

He also built a set based on Bennick’s old TV digs and filmed short videos the garage of his Winter Haven home.

They were a hit on YouTube.

A year ago, Koon realized his dream of following Bennick’s footsteps and began hosting his own quarterly horror show, Tombstone Tales at WTOG, now known as CW44 Tampa Bay.

I wrote my first newspaper story about Koon and his Dr. Paul Bearer II persona in 2010. I’ve been keeping track of him ever since. In honor of the Halloween season, I sat down with him this week to chat about life as a TV horror host. When he’s not touring around in his alter ego’s hearse, Koon is taking care of business at Richline Appliance Parts in Eagle Lake. He regaled me with tales of the friendly undertaker in between serving customers in the busy shop.

D.K. – What made you decide to bring back the Dr. Paul Bearer character? What was it about him that grabbed you?

R.E.K. – What made me even consider it was back in the day of Creature Feature, my sister Beth (Koon) used to run downstairs, turn on the TV, and sit there religiously watching Dr. Paul Bearer. And I used to say, “What is this guy? He’s kind of dumb,” because I didn’t understand the puns. He was quirky, kooky.

Later, Dr. Paul (Bearer) had done a couple of segments and I caught one and actually laughed. There was something about the character itself that was creepy but cool. He had “The Look.”

You see all these characters out there, and yeah, there are some good ones – Freddy and Jason. Elvira. They have the kooky horror look. But there’s something about Dr. Paul, it’s not just the look – he was really cool. Dr. Paul’s a good guy. He’s not out there to cut your throat.

D.K. – What do you enjoy most about Tombstone Tales?

R.E.K. – When we get in there, there’s something about when the set is assembled and the lighting is on, I transform more into the character than when I’m out and about dressed in costume.

I think it’s fantastic that it’s not just a “me thing.” We have a whole team. We will write it, they will direct it and I will act it. The amazing thing is when they put it together I’ll see what I’m doing… I do what the director tells me and then it’s funny. It’s hilarious.

Last night I watched yesterday’s show with my family and busted a gut open. I was cracking up so hard. I know I found the niche. I now know what it is I want to do in front of the camera. It’s basically this: Dr. Paul had this saying, “Be peculiar because to be normal takes a lot more effort.”

To watch Dr. Paul Bearer as himself, as nonchalant as he is with all of this hoopla going on around the Tenement Castle, it’s normal to him. It doesn’t faze him.

D.K. – Do you still have the set in your garage?

R.E.K. – That’s it. (He points to a photo on the computer screen.) I carted it over to the station to show the station manager and Greg Blackburn, who worked on the original creature feature. I set it up and when they came in and saw it, everybody’s jaw dropped. They were like, “Wow!”

D.K. – That’s cool.

R.E.K. – Yeah. We took the old set and mixed it with the new set. I really feel “in tomb” when I’m on the set. I’m sorry, I don’t mean this. (Referring to the pun)

D.K. – Yes, you do!

R.E.K. – Hmm….go on.

D.K. – What is it about the Dr. Paul Bearer persona that makes him so endearing?

R.E.K. – During Sir Henry’s Haunted Trail, I could just sit there and wait for somebody to turn around and when they did, they got spooked. I just made eye contact, and the eyes open and with that black makeup, they look kind of cross. And then I’d go, “How are you doing?” (fast, low voice)
“Okay, I guess.” (wavering voice of a small child.) “How are you?”
“I’m doing terrible. Just the way I like it.” (fast, low voice)

And then they start loosening up a bit and I start bringing in a bit of conversation and throw in a couple of puns, and the next thing I know they are smiling. It’s fright and then smile, and then friendship forever.

D.K. – Describe Dr. Paul Bearer’s personality. In what way are you two alike?

R.E.K. – He really doesn’t like stress. He has a way of dealing with stress – he pays it no mind. He tries to find the humor in everything. When I’m in character, it’s pointed out to me that people wish they could be me because I could step into that character and leave Richard – and all the worries – behind and I’m just Dr. Paul Bearer. And she’s right – she being my wife – because when I’m on set, when I’m in persona, when I’m doing events, Richard is gone. Dr. Paul Bearer is there. I love it when people come up and smile. It’s an incredible feeling. It really is.

Patty Bennick (Dick Bennick’s widow) told me, “I want you to develop the character and I want you to put a little bit of Richard in there.”

And a little bit of Richard is in there. In fact, one of my customers says, “There’s the Richard I know” because I do love to cut up.

D.K. – People still watch movies based on Mary Shelley’s Frankenstein and Bram Stoker’s Dracula. To what do you attribute their continued popularity?

R.E.K. – A lot of people are wanting the black and white films. I tell you one thing, they get to the point. There are movies out there today and it takes forever to get to the point. And there are some movies today where you actually have to think. Those (old) movies, it’s like curl up on the couch, turn out the lights, and they have creepy, creepy music. (He imitates creepy music) Maybe we like it because it makes us feel young again because we saw it when we were young.

D.K. – Do you think people just like to be scared?

R.E.K. – Yeah, because after they’re scared, they laugh. That’s why I love to scare people on Halloween. I love it.

D.K. – What is your favorite horror or paranormal movie? Why?

R.E.K. – Ahhh, there are so many! I’ve always loved the Amityville Horror. Of course now that I’ve decided that it was not paranormal, it kinda ruined it. As far as the classics go, definitely Frankenstein.

D.K. – Why?

R.E.K. – You’ve got to think back to the 30s or 40s, you had Nosferatu, which was just creepy itself and you didn’t even need sound with that one. The technology, for them to come up with this – we didn’t have this type of (modern) technology. But man, did they make it happen! As long as you put common knowledge out of your head and go with what the movie is saying, it’s entertaining. I mean you can’t do a head transplant, but that didn’t even cross my mind when I was watching Frankenstein. (Koon becomes animated and shouts, “It’s alive. Alive!”)

Of course, I still love – it was one of the first ones I watched – the Attack of the Giant Leeches. It’s so hokey! They had these trash bags and the sound they made was creepy. (He makes more sound effects.)

D.K. – How do you come up with your puns – do you dream them?

R.E.K. – A lot of it is by the seat of my pants. I have always, even before doing Dr. Paul Bearer, had diminished hearing. I’ve never been able to understand words to a song. I hear different sounds from what a lot of people hear. So, I’ll start filling in my own words. We’re driving down the road and a song comes on. I’ll start singing it using my kids’ names and whatever the situation and they giggle and crack up. I guess the more you practice, the more it happens.

Last week at ZombieFest, people would come who had a ticket for getting their picture taken in the casket with Dr. Paul Bearer. As they were coming in, it just dawned on me and I’d say, “Come in, come in, you want to lie down? Heh, heh, heh, this is my sleep number bed.”

They’re like, “Sleep number bed?”

“Well, yes it is, most certainly, because when your number is up, this is the bed you get. Heh, heh, heh!”

That one just came to me.

D.K. – Do people laugh, or do they just go, “eh?”

R.E.K. – If they get it, they laugh. A lot of times I have to explain it and then they’re like “Ohhhhh.”

(He launches into a string of puns.)

“Why do you part your hair down the middle?” That’s where the bullet went.

When they ask me to do something I always say, let me take a stab at it.

(He pulls his pun folder from a desk drawer and reads one.) What’s the favorite health insurance for goblins, ghosts, and monsters? Mediscare. (He laughs.)

They (people) think I’m weird, but when they get it they’re like ‘that’s cool!’

D.K. – What are some of your frequently asked questions?

R.E.K. – Are you the original’s son? My reply is “only by character.”

Do you have his hearse? No, I wasn’t lucky enough for that. Busch Gardens has that in one of their scare houses. I have a newer edition. It’s a 94 Lincoln. I had to have air conditioning.

Are you ever going to do a show? Yes, we have been. Go check on Facebook for clips.

Do you do private parties or private events? I tell them selectively. I would have to get their information to my agent. I don’t do any private events in people’s homes. If it’s out and about, I’ll consider it.

Is that scar real? I tell them the same thing Dick did: “You like my scar? You can have one too; just go to the used scar lot.”

D.K. – Where can people find segments of Tombstone Tales?

R.E.K. – Facebook and Twitter. Facebook, that’s generally where I do a lot of my content. Check I’m always posting the dates and times of shows, and usually the station will send me clips of what they’re airing – 5 second spots promoting the show. At the end of every show they show bloopers, I post those., they can reach me there too.

D.K. – Would you like to add anything else?

R.E.K. – I’ll be lurking for you!

Musicians on the Move: The Truitts, Briana Tyson, and J.D. Wylkes Part 2

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Photo: J.D. Wylkes, Brigetta Truitt, Brett Truitt, and Briana Tyson perform at the Ritz Theatre in Winter Haven, Florida, September 2015.

Following your passion often feels like taking an exhilarating leap off a cliff into a shimmering blue ocean, but the hang time brings a strange blend of joy and fear. The overriding emotion often depends upon what you find waiting in the water – hungry sharks or friendly dolphins. When siblings and singer-songwriters Brett and Brigetta Truitt moved to Nashville earlier this year, they were fortunate enough to find a mentor in award-winning songwriter Bobby Braddock, who grew up in the Truitt’s home town in Florida, and true friendship with artists Briana Tyson and J.D. Wylkes.

Together the four friends face the sharks in the music business while honing their craft, learning the ropes, and loving life.

During their Rounds on the Road Tour, they recently stopped in my hometown, just a few miles from where The Truitts grew up in Auburndale, Florida. We sat down to chat in the historic Ritz Theatre.

This is part two of a two-part interview.

D.K. – How has living and working in Nashville affected you?

Brigetta – Nashville has challenged us a lot, has really shaped us. We’ve become better song writers just going to those writer’s rounds and hearing the people’s stories and the mindset they have.

Brett – There are a lot of massively talented people. It’s like if you’re in school, there’s the kid who makes the best grades and that’s the person who motivates you to be better. You can go out every night and see 40 of those people. It’s a community of song writers and musicians and we’re all challenging each other to be better because we all want those few spots.

With music you can work for 10 years and not get anywhere, but we’re not going to compromise what we’re doing. This is what we’re doing and that’s what we’re going to stick with.

D.K. – What is your biggest accomplishment to date?

Brigetta – Writing with Bobby Braddock. He would play the piano, think of something, and write it down. He’d say, “I got it” and walk to a corner. He’d start humming things and saying things, and come back and have a part of a verse. It was incredible. That experience of being in his writing room with all of his awards – it was such a cool experience.

Brett – Music is a bunch of tiny accomplishments. I’m not sure I’ve reached my goals of accomplishments yet. Every time we write a great song, that’s a great win, that’s a great accomplishment. We have a lot of little accomplishments.

Briana – Putting a CD out for “Moonshine.”

J.D. – I’d probably say when I led the music in my school when we were in the arena and there were 12,000 students in front of you. It was one of those moments like this is not anything I’ve experienced before. Standing on that stage and looking out at the crowd and connecting with them through the music. You can’t really forget something like that, your first time in a big venue.

D.K. – Who is your biggest musical inspiration?

Brigetta – The Jackson 5 is the reason I got into music. (She launches into her version of the Jackson 5 hit, “ABC”)

Bobby Braddock. We were doing a pop sound. Bobby Braddock said to do a little more country. He said, “I love you guys. I love the way you perform. I love the sound, you just have to be a little bit more country.” So, then we mixed in the pop country, which is kind of where we land now. We’re a little bit more poppy, because country is kinda turning into that now.

Brett – Muse, Zeppelin. I’m pretty eclectic.

Bobby Braddock has been our biggest mentor in Nashville. We met him two years ago. He’s from Auburndale, our hometown. He took to us and has really helped us with our writing, our direction, and connecting us in Nashville. Bobby has really taught us about hard work. So many people come to Nashville and want the success, but they aren’t willing to put in the hours. All of us here, that’s what we thrive on: putting in the hours

Briana – I have several of them and oddly enough none of them are country. John Mayer is probably my favorite artist of all time. Celine Dion is one of my biggest influences. I’ve been listening to her ever since I was little. I’ve been obsessed with her music and I got to meet and sing with her.

J.D. – My dad’s been in a Beatles cover band since the 70s, so that’s what I grew up listening to my whole life. I still listen to the Beatles pretty much every day. Tom Petty is a big influence on my music. Clapton, love Clapton. I really don’t like any of the music today. I like those sounds from the 60s through the 80s. I want to bring back some of those rock or the pop sounds.

D.K. – How do you handle the Nashville challenges and music trends?

Brigetta – You look back but you don’t degrade a thing.

Brett – Nashville is a town of trend chasers. We want to be the trend setters.

Briana – Country music is not the way it used to be. It used to be about telling stories, almost a Christianity in songs. And it doesn’t any more. We want to bring back the respect and the story telling country music used to have. It’s going to come around to what we’re doing at some point, we just have to keep doing what we do and wait for that time to come.

D.K. – Tell me about Rounds on the Road (CD and tour)

Note: The Truitt’s, Briana Tyson, and J.D. Wylkes completed the first leg of the Rounds on the Road Tour in Florida. They will resume the tour in January 2016. They’re analyzing comments on social media to determine where they will perform, although Cleveland, Ohio is on the list.

During a songwriter round, songwriters sit casually on stage, play songs, and tell stories or discuss the lyrics between them.

Brett – It’s like bringing a little slice of Nashville to everyone else.

J.D. – We’ve got a lot of new songs for this new CD called Rounds on the Road. It’s a lot of songs we haven’t released. It has a few songs we’ve pitched to other artists. That’s kind of a hard thing about where we are as songwriters – we have to try to figure out if this is going to be my song that you finish or am I going to take this song and pitch it to other artists? Can we release it yet or do we have to hold back and see if anyone else is going to release it? We’re kind of in this very awkward moment.

But we’re kind of figuring it out song by song, which is really cool.

Musicians on the Move: The Truitts, Briana Tyson, and J.D. Wylkes Part 1

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Photo: Brett Truitt, Briana Tyson, Brigetta Truitt, and J.D. Wylkes at the Ritz Theatre in Winter Haven, Florida, September 2015

When siblings and singer-songwriters Brett and Brigetta Truitt – known professionally as pop/country duo The Truitts – arrived in Nashville nine months ago to pursue a music career, they didn’t know what to expect.

In a town the size of Nashville – about 601,000 people – especially one brimming with egos and ambitions across the music industry, it’s not always easy to get your bearings, much less find a friend.

But within a week they met American Idol alum Briana Tyson, 22, at a writer’s round and she quickly introduced them to J.D. Wylkes, a 26-year-old pop/rock/country artist. Although Tyson and Wylkes are artists in their own right, the friendship between the Truitts, Tyson and Wylkes has blossomed into co-writing songs, producing recordings and a tour they dubbed, “Rounds on the Road.” In addition to a common love of music, they all have supportive parents and a faith in God that sustain them.

During their Rounds on the Road Tour, they recently stopped in my hometown, just a few miles from where The Truitts grew up in Auburndale, Florida. We sat down to chat in the historic Ritz Theatre.

D.K. – What path did you take to Nashville?

Brigetta – I started music when I was a little girl, and I did plays and musicals at Theatre Winter Haven. Then we started singing at charity events. We put together a duo and some songs. We’re both passionate about music and we were doing the more pop route.  (Note: Brigetta is 16 years old and takes classes through a virtual high school. Brett is 22.)

Briana – I’ve been singing since I was a baby. It’s been one of those things like a chain reaction with things happening. It’s long process. I’ve been doing this professionally for almost 13 years.

I started coming back and forth to Nashville working with a manager when I was 13. I’d fly back and forth to California every few months. When I turned 16, my rep at BMI said, “If you want anything to happen, then it’s time to move to Nashville.” So, my whole family packed up and we all moved to Nashville within three months and I’ve just been working it ever since.

I’ve had some opportunities. I’ve opened for Vince Gill. I was on American Idol and made it to the Top 100 in the Scotty McCreery Season. (Season 10)

Trying to get things accomplished by a certain age has been difficult. It’s a process of writing and recording. Finally I’ve been signed with Emerge National.

It will be good to have a single out in the next couple of months. It’s called “Throw Back”.

J.D. – I’ve been singing since I was 13 years old. I wasn’t interested in music at all when I was younger; baseball was my thing.

One day my dad gave me for a Christmas present his old 1950 silver-tone guitar. My fingers literally started bleeding trying to learn how to play, but I loved it. I started playing at church later that year with him and I’ve done Christian music for about 10 years.

I was at a Christian school called Liberty University in Liberty, Virginia. I was leading the music for the university. I started listening to some of the secular artists I grew up with and started writing some of that again. That’s why I decided to move to Nashville.

I moved to Nashville about 2 ½ – 3 years ago. For the first year I didn’t do anything because I was scoping it out. I didn’t even know where to begin. I just played a lot of writer’s rounds and wrote a lot of songs.

D.K. – How is Nashville similar or different from what you expected?

Brigetta – Nashville is all about making connections – who you know, who you meet. It’s not necessarily about talent all of the time. We’re trying to show the best we can individually.

Brett – It’s a very overwhelming experience and it took a few months to settle in. You just have so much you have to do and so many people you need to meet. When you’re here (Auburndale) you go down to the Shake Shop and say “Hi” to your neighbors. There you go to an ice cream store and you go, “Hi, are you Gavin McGraw?”

Briana – You go to Nashville and you’re feeling I can do this and I like my songs better than this song on the radio, and you think it’s going to be easy. Then you realize it isn’t about what you think it’s about. Nashville can be very discouraging at times. There are people who are way better than you that never get to be successful and there are people who are nowhere as good as you that will have more success than you ever dreamed you could have. But music is one of those things where it chooses you. You don’t choose to do music. I don’t have a choice, it’s the only thing I can possibly do.

I have song that’s a story about an alcoholic father and a man come up to me after a show crying and saying, “My father was an alcoholic and thank you for sharing this story.” It’s those moments that make everything worth it. You forget about all of the things that happened, all the negative words, all the tears. All that matters is that you touched someone’s life. That’s what music is all about

D.K. – In what way had your friendship impacted your experience in Nashville?

Brigetta – We were kind of lost. Finding these guys was the best thing ever for us – not only did we find people who supported us as people, but they make us better people, better writers.

It’s humbling to know there are people out there who still stand their ground. To me it motivates me want to be the better person and not to fall into those kinds of temptations a lot of my kids might fall into. We want to be the Tim Tebow of Country Music and always be someone who glorifies God in all that you do.

We just want to make country music great. That’s a big goal, but with the right people, with God, with the support of family and friends, anything is possible.

Briana – I’ve been coming back and forth here for years and I’ve never found friends where it’s not like a competition. With all of us, if one of us gets brought up in a conversation, the other ones get brought up. We support each other because we care for each other.

Coming up in Part 2:

Brett, Brigetta, Briana, and J.D. discuss living and working in Nashville, their accomplishments and inspiration, and what’s up next for them.

Confessions of a Theater Critic Part 2: The Lessons



The new theater season is upon us, which means life is becoming even busier these days. Yet this annual return to the theater feeds my creative side and teaches me something new about the arts, the world and myself.

With my first review of the season under my belt, I take a deep breath and hang on to my pen and notepad! More productions will be on their way, which not only means a crazier schedule, but more opportunities to experience theater magic.

In honor of this magic, this week I share with you several thoughts generated from past theater experiences.

Lessons from the Footlights

  • An appreciation of farce. I’ve never been a fan of The Three Stooges, most Jim Carrey movies, or silly cartoons. Screams, slamming doors, and general silliness make me cringe. While it’s still not my favorite theater genre, I’ve experienced enough quality performances to develop respect for the razor sharp timing, on-stage chemistry between performers, and daring it takes to make farce work.
  • The show really must go on! Dedication, tenacity, sheer stubbornness – and a love of the stage, enable shows to continue despite a flu bug attacking a third of the cast, equipment failure, wardrobe malfunction, intense fatigue and personal crisis. Usually I hear about these after the fact. Yep, Prince Charming didn’t seem thrilled to kiss Cinderella because he had the flu and didn’t want to share the bug. But she raised her lips to his anyway! That’s commitment to the craft.
  • It’s natural to have favorite actors, but it’s also imperative – and possible – to be objective in a review. Yes, I smile when I see certain names among the cast list because I know they will add certain flair to the production, no matter the genre. But I still look at their performances with a critical eye. These are the actors who proved to me that it’s also possible to dislike the play but still be impressed by specific performances.
  • Don’t discount smaller theaters who manage to stage quality shows – albeit perhaps with less glitz and glamour – without a paid staff, fewer volunteers, and very little money. Often these theaters charge less for tickets, offering an unbeatable entertainment value.
  • Honesty is important. I wish I could give all performances a stellar review, but sometimes criticism is unavoidable. To give a great review to a mediocre performance not only undermines my credibility, but does a disservice to readers who look to reviews when determining where to spend their entertainment dollars.
  • Just as a reviewer won’t be enamored of every show, not all readers or actors will be thrilled with every review. I’ve seen snarky remarks on Facebook and not-so-kind letters to the editor in response to reviews. The silver lining is the thicker skin I’ve developed from reading them.

The “Shoe on the Other Foot” Thing

One particularly negative letter to the editor zinged me for, among other things, focusing only on the lead actors and not mentioning those in smaller roles. Although I did mention the designers in the review, the writer pointed out the importance of the stage manager and other technicians.

Point well taken.

My editor noticed an increase in the length of my reviews after she received that letter. I took a marked notice in smaller but well-played roles and highlighted the efforts of young actors. In musicals, I credited the music director and pit musicians.

Although I took awhile to admit it, I learned a lot from that letter.

It prepared me for life as an author in the Internet Age.

Just as I’m not wild about every performance I see, not everyone appreciates my books.

Negative book reviews can sting, but I don’t take them personally. The reviewer may not like my book, but he or she has no idea who I am as a person. I try to compare the book reviewer to my role as a theater critic: Just because I don’t appreciate an aspect of the play doesn’t invalidate the entire production.

I do, however, use negative book reviews as an opportunity to learn. While I don’t dwell on them, I DO consider negative comments and consider using them as tools to evaluate my writing and make it better.

Writing theater reviews has made me a stronger person, better writer and more appreciative theater patron, and for this I thank everyone who has been a part of a production I’ve reviewed.



Confessions of a Theater Critic: Part 1

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I didn’t set out to become a theater critic.

But thanks to a career-changing twist of fate, it’s become one of the most satisfying parts of my writing life.

In 1998, when I joined The Ledger, a daily newspaper based in Lakeland, Florida, I started as a part-time news clerk. My responsibilities included typing news briefs and producing daily crime maps for cities in our county. A few weeks later I was promoted to full-time news assistant. Eventually I made it to reporter.

This turned into a fulfilling and interesting 10-year career with the Ledger. I became a reporter with a focus on features and a love of the arts. Over the years I covered two municipalities, schools, churches, and my personal favorite: the arts. My love of the arts grew as did my reputation in the arts community.

Life was good.

At least it was until the economy tanked and the paper entered into several rounds of layoffs. I was axed in round two.

I was still reeling from my job loss when the paper’s theater critic resigned. Because of my experience writing about the arts community, I was asked to take over reviewing local community theater performances, something I couldn’t do as a staff writer who previewed theater shows.

I said yes. It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made.

Although I later returned to the Ledger Media Group for four more years, I was thrilled to be approached once again to review theater performances when I left the paper for good to write books. I’m blessed to continue serving the paper in this way.

Perks of Penning Reviews

I don’t do it for the money.

Yes, I get paid to review theater performances. But if you account for the time involved in traveling to a theater in a different city, watching the play, and writing the review, I barely clear minimum wage per piece. Add in gasoline costs and I probably make less than minimum wage.

But the intrinsic value is priceless.

Being a critic provides the means – admission with a press pass – and the motivation for me to experience theater I might not otherwise see. While I do take notes during performances, watching a play allows me to take a break from real life and go to another place and time for awhile – a sweet respite! We are blessed with four community theaters in Polk County and they’ve all made me laugh, cry, cringe, gasp, sing, dance up the aisle, and smile all the way home.

And I’ve met the most fascinating people. Theater folks may be quirky, but they’re anything but boring. If you need to find a different way of looking at the world, talk to anyone associated with the theater and you’ll receive some fascinating views. Follow them on Facebook and Twitter and you’ll discover some of the coolest people on the planet.

A treasured memory: One producing director of a local theater emailed me after the publication of each review to thank me for my comments – whether the review was stellar or not. He always managed to pass along a bit of wisdom from his 44-year career. He retired at the end of last season. I’ll miss his emails. They had a huge impact on me as a reviewer, writer, and theater enthusiast.

Not Just Entertainment Fluff

When I signed on as a critic, I had no idea how seriously reviews were taken by the theater community. Had I realized this, the knowledge may have intimidated me out of the gig.

As they say, ignorance is euphoria – or something like that.

After recently chatting with a couple of local producing/managing theater directors and a number of patrons, I compiled a list of several ways theaters are impacted by reviews – good and bad. Reviews do the following:
• Give patrons an idea of whether or not they want to spend their precious time and money seeing the production
• Provide theaters marketing opportunities through posting reviews on websites and social media
• Offer well-deserved recognition for everyone who has spent long hours involved preparing, rehearsing, designing, and executing a production
• Affect audience turnout. A negative review may decrease the number of people in the audience while a positive review will most likely increase it.

Both patrons and thespians check newspapers for reviews in the days following opening night.

“To have our productions reviewed gives them the status and importance of all our endeavors and the immense value to our community’s overall cultural quality and quality of life we have come to expect here in Lakeland,” says Alan Reynolds, artistic and managing director for Lakeland Community Theatre.

Dan Chesnicka, an experienced actor who recently took the helm of Theatre Winter Haven as producing director, has experienced a shift in the way he sees reviews.

“I have a whole new view about what a reviewer is. It’s always had to do with ego as a performer,” he says. “Now it’s a tool I can share on social media. After a review, I write those thank you notes.”

Reviews, explains Chesnicka, hold the theater to a higher standard.

“It’s important to do good work and to have an honest evaluation. It has to be from an independent party,” he said. “The only way to get better is to know when you’re screwing up.”

Occasionally I’ll receive a note from actors thanking me for feedback. A memorable one was written by an actress who said she took my comments, i.e.: constructive criticism, to heart and was working on improving. While she couldn’t change the costuming issue, she did have the power to improve her stage presence. I saw huge growth in her acting the following season. Her email remains in my files.

I’ve been told my reviews have been included in grant applications resulting in funding. I’m pleased to know my work may in some small way help them continue providing quality theater experiences to our county.

The arts matter. I’m pleased to know my theater reviews do too.

Coming Soon in Part 2:

  • Lessons from the Footlights
  • The “Shoe on the Other Foot” Thing

When the Writing Gets Tough: How Goodreads Helped Cure My Writer’s Block


With all due respect to naysayers, writer’s block DOES exist. When work on my current work-in-progress stalled several months ago, I panicked and sought advice about overcoming the writer’s woe from all sorts of folks. Suggestions ranged from writing through the block to going for a run or visiting a museum to finding a good book to read.

Read, you say? There’s a thought!

I’d tried running, lunch with friends, meditation, and watching movies, but nothing seemed to pop me out of my slump. I knew I had to try a different approach.

I opted for reading.

After my daughter told me about Goodreads, I opened an account in April and immediately signed up for the 2015 Reading Challenge with a goal of reading 24 books by December 31. The year was nearly a third over before I started my first book, Burial Rites, a gorgeous novel by Hannah Kent. I finished reading my 24th book, Kevin Brockmeier’s post-apocalyptic gem, The Illumination, on Sept. 14.

I wish I could say my writing hit Indy 500 speed after finishing Kent’s book because her writing was magical, but my muse wasn’t so easily satisfied. A steady diet consisting of two dozen books of varying genres was the right muse medicine. Each book had a lesson for me and pointed out something lacking in my writing, knowledge, or way of thinking.

Here’s a list of my favorite “teachers,” their text books, and lessons learned:

Lesson 1: Without atmosphere and emotion, all is lost. About 31 pages into Burial Rites, I realized my book’s first two missing ingredients: atmosphere and emotion. I’d plucked the volume off the “New Arrivals” shelf of my local public library because I found the blurb fascinating. It was all that and more – stark, beautiful, emotional. But what grabbed me was how Kent made me feel the bone-chilling cold of Iceland, the desperation of its inhabitants, the humanity of convicted murderer Agnes Magnusdottir, and the fear inside members of the Jonsson family charged with housing her until her execution. I began searching my manuscript for ways to create atmosphere and emotion.

Lesson 2: Know your subject. My new novel revolves around two fictitious musicians of differing generations and Gram Parsons, a legendary pioneer of country rock music. My writing hit a wall when I realized I didn’t fully understand the evolution of the country rock. I grew up in the 1970s when country rock was already established and bands like the Eagles, The Marshall Tucker Band, Poco, and the Allman Brothers Band were staples on the radio. Wrapping my head around the concept of country rock and understanding why Gram Parsons remains a controversial cult figure were two big challenges. John Einarson’s Desperados: The Roots of Country Rock, is hardly the best written book I’ve ever read, but it IS a treasure chest of quotations and insight from or about the musicians who created a new music genre by combining several existing styles. Now I get it!

Lesson 3: Never underestimate the power of “What if?” and making your dialog count. I discovered the power of Brockmeier’s imagination and use of sparse dialog through two of his books, The Brief History of the Dead and The Illumination. This guy tackles some pretty wild, “what ifs” and he weaves story lines together like a super-strength rope. Everything counts.

Lesson 4: Pat Conroy’s writing still makes me slow down and linger inside books. Oh, Mr. Conroy, how I’ve missed you! I pulled My Reading Life from my bookcase where it had sat unread for a few years, and found The Death of Santini – a bargain for a buck – tucked on a shelf in my public library’s used bookstore. Reading Conroy is like sinking into a gushy chair and sipping a mint julep as the most succulent words in the English language wash over you. Yes, there’s still a place for gorgeous description and thought-provoking language in novel writing! Don’t be afraid to use it.

Lesson 5: Learn to hypnotize the reader with your writing and story. When I finished Ann Patchett’s State of Wonder, I closed my eyes and sat still for several minutes in my silent house. When I opened them, I announced into the quiet, “I want my writing to affect people like that.” She transported me to an exotic locale that made me both squeal with delight and squirm in discomfort. But the ending was – well, it was one of the best I’ve ever read. I have so much to learn.

Lesson 6: Marketing my work is doable. I’d ordered Michael Hyatt’s Platform: Get Noticed in a Noisy World a couple of years ago, but stashed it in my bookcase unread because the whole concept of platform building overwhelmed me. With my book publication looming later this year, I pulled Hyatt’s book from the shelf. A fast, easy read, Platform gave me the courage to build a website with the help of my friend, Andrea Cruz; activate my long-dormant Twitter account and Facebook author page; join Pinterest; and begin marketing myself as a public speaker. I CAN do this marketing thing!

So, I send the good folks at Goodreads a big THANK YOU for motivating me to schedule reading time into my daily routine. In today’s busy, fast paced world, it’s easy to sacrifice reading for a host of other activities. Now that I’ve re-established my voracious reading habit, I’m not letting it go. I feel like me, the bookworm, again!

And this bodes well for my writing.

To the 20 authors mentioned below, I’m grateful to each of you for leading me back to my story through yours.

The full list of books I read during the Challenge:
The Illumination and The Brief History of the Dead by Kevin Brockmeier
Between the Lines by Jodi Piccoult and Samantha van Leer
The Husband’s Secret by Liane Moriarty
The Death of Santini and My Reading Life by Pat Conroy
The Prince of the Mist by Carlos Ruiz Zafron
Mohawk by Richard Russo
The Pilot’s Wife by Anita Shreve
Phantom Evil, Waking the Dead, and Ghost Walk by Heather Graham
The Lovely Bones by Alice Sebold
State of Wonder by Ann Patchett
Partners by Nora Roberts
Platform: Get Noticed in a Noisy World by Michael Hyatt
Desperados: The Roots of Country Rock by John Einarson
Down by the River by Lin Stepp
Wildwood by Posie Graeme-Evans
Offcomer by Jo Baker
The Jazz Palace by Mary Morris
The Time Traveler’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger
Eat, Pray, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert
Burial Rites by Hannah Kent

Writing Through the Days: My Life in Journals

Beautiful journals hold the truths of my life.

Beautiful journals hold the truths of my life.

I’ve been collecting my thoughts in some form of journal on and off since I was in 9th grade. My earlier “journals” were mostly poems written for my first love in a red spiral bound notebook. They ranged from syrupy sweet lines of boundless affection to angst-ridden tales of woe penned after he had the poor judgment to break up with me following 10th grade prom. Then I wrote verses swearing off musicians and promising I’d spend the rest of my life in solitude.

Yes, I was a bit melodramatic back in the day.

Since then, my journals have changed in both content and container.

While I still write poetry and essays, my journals also contain rough sketches, lists, book ideas, workshop suggestions, observations, and self study.

I’ve kept journals in 3-ring binders, writing tablets, plain black journals with lined pages and, for a very short time, on the computer. With all due respect to Doogie Howser, M.D., journal writing doesn’t seem the same when done on a computer. These days, journal entries are written in beautiful blank books of varying styles, colors, and sizes. A tiny version is always tucked in my purse, ready to record my life on the go.

I’ve purchased many journal books, but others hold special memories of the friends and family who gave them to me. Some journals are significant because the words in them chronicle turning points in my life or in the lives of loved ones. Each one is an important part of who I am.

The photo above shows a few of my favorites.

  • The Book Woman journal was a Christmas gift from my mom, who passed away in 2002. She taught me to love books, read newspapers, and to believe in my abilities as a writer. I miss her and treasure this journal she bought for me more than a decade before I wrote my first book. She was my best friend.
  • The leather journal embossed with a Celtic cross was a Christmas gift from my sister Kate and her family a couple of years ago. We share a passion for our Irish heritage and a love of books. This journal has nice thick pages on which to draw illustrations and diagrams in addition to words.
  • My daughter Elizabeth has never been much of a journal keeper, but she loves finding perfect additions for my stockpile. The small purple journal with the beaded flowers was one she received as a gift in middle school. I found it tucked in a box after her move to Louisiana and added it to the collection she’s given to me over the years, including the pink and gold book she tucked inside my Christmas stocking last year.
  • I love cats and receive a great deal of comfort from my trusty kitty Bellamy. Last summer I chose a journal with a kitten on the front to take while traveling to Ohio to deliver my brother-in-law’s eulogy. The journal helped me find the right words for a tough occasion.
  • Sometimes I get stuck in the middle of writing a book and need to journal my way out of the mire. The blue and pink floral journal is where I wrapped my head around Gram Parsons and his contribution to country rock music. I dug into the lifestyle of career musicians and also discovered a few things I didn’t know about myself.
  • The silver and black journal was a recent birthday gift from a friend who helped me rediscover my love of journaling by taking me along on an artist’s retreat to Asheville, N.C. a few years ago. Our friendship has been through the fire over the years, but it has grown stronger too. I love this journal and the woman who gave it to me.
  • While in Asheville, I experienced a beautiful act of kindness from Mel, a young woman I barely knew. The trip was a turning point for me on so many levels and I began a journaling frenzy on that mountain top. One morning, Mel came into the kitchen of the log home holding her journal and the message imprinted on the leather jumped out at me: “There is no room for fear when you have faith.” I complimented the journal and told Mel the words were just the message I needed at that point in my life. The next thing I knew, Mel was tearing out the few pages she’d already used and placing the book in my hands. It was one of the nicest things anyone has ever done for me. I filled every line in that journal with heartfelt words.
  • This year I reconnected with a childhood friend I’ve not seen in decades, but she was one of the first kids I met when my family moved to Florida from New Jersey in 1971. Since reconnecting, we’ve installed a wood floor in her condo, cleaned out my closets, trimmed hair for each other, solved life’s problems, and laughed – a lot. Never underestimate the value of someone who makes you laugh. She gave me, In My Humble Opinion and the chuckles continue!

For me, journaling is playing with words, examining thoughts, making sense of the world, preserving memories, and being at peace.

Each journal I own represents a specific time in my life. I cherish every one of them.

Post Script: Remember the guy who broke my heart in high school? We reconnected nearly 30 years later. We’ve been married since 2007. We’re still  making beautiful music!

Maintaining Optimism: An Artful Reminder


“Optimism can change the world.”

I believe this.

But I’m not so sure I realized it until I saw the words painted on a wall under broken window panes amid peeling paint.

I took this photo recently while walking back to my car after having breakfast with my son at one of our favorite restaurants on the edge of downtown Winter Haven, where revitalization has been on an upswing in recent years. Not only do I appreciate positive tag art, but the words painted on the dilapidated building struck a beautiful chord inside me.

I can say with certainty that optimism not only changed my world, it changed ME.

For most of my life, I was an avowed pessimist. My mantra was, “Hope for the best, but expect the worst.” I was a great believer in Murphy’s Law.

And I was steadfast in this belief.

Until I turned 50 years old.

Something about hitting this milestone age made me uncomfortable remaining in constant view of the proverbial half-empty glass and bored with my ever present Eeyore-style mourning. How could I possibly make my dreams come true if I didn’t have the optimism to believe they were possible? It was time for me to adopt a new way of looking at life, the world, and myself.

However, actual change was a long time coming. With all due respect to Oprah, there was no “aha! moment” resulting in instant Donna-changing optimism.

Sure, the decision to leave my career as a reporter to write books was a monumental change – one that took longer than the time I spent composing my resignation letter. It took even longer to wrap my head around the idea of practicing optimism every day, of looking for the good or a lesson to be learned in any uncomfortable situation, of motivating myself when the going became rough.

Could a book proposal rejection really be a good thing? What about missing out on a freelance job?

Yes, even rejection can be a catalyst for changes in thinking and lifestyle, for making one stronger. I began to realize something better must be ahead. I learned to focus on positive possibilities – instead of mourning what was perceived to have been lost.

I started to develop optimism.

The process was not a quick one. It has taken several years and required changes in my daily routine – waking early enough to meditate and journal, finding time to take walks and resume my old hobby of running, fitting reading into my schedule, and hanging out with folks who push me out of my comfort zone. I had to rearrange my thinking and replace the knee-jerk, “I can’t” with “I will.” I needed to uncover the paradoxical truth of feeling better about oneself through helping others – leading writing groups, teaching classes, tackling public speaking, writing more books, mentoring teenage writers.

I had to rediscover myself.

It WAS an ordeal. Change can be difficult, uncomfortable, and unwieldy – even while you’re certain it’s also positive and life-changing.

It’s sort of like the continuing downtown revitalization effort my city started several years ago. Yes, it’s irritating maneuvering around road construction and blocked sidewalks. It hurts to see familiar features removed to make room for something new, something better. Sometimes it’s difficult to see the future through the upheaval.

And not everyone likes changes, whether they are in people or surroundings.

These days I’m calmer, more confident, and definitely more positive about the future. While I’m more apt to reach out and help others, I’m also more likely to speak my mind, walk away from snarky people rather than tolerate their comments, and calmly defend myself when necessary. I’m also better at letting things go.

I like the change.

I like the evolution of downtown Winter Haven too. There’s a positive vibe with new businesses moving in, young adults becoming involved in the community, and a renewed focus on the cultural arts. Yet, owners of older companies are keeping traditions while looking into better ways of doing businesses. By combining the tried and true with fresh and new, Winter Haven is becoming a better place to live.

In a way, my city and I are growing up and maturing at the same time. Somehow, the thought makes me feel grounded.

I thank the unknown artist who painted those five powerful words on the old building downtown.

We can all use a positive message once in a while.

We all need to experience the power of optimism.

Musicians on the Move: Glass House Point


About a year and a half ago, I stood spellbound among a gathering crowd in my hometown’s Central Park as five young musicians played Bob Dylan’s “Wagon Wheel” under moonlight. I’ve been following their fledgling career path ever since. Along the way, they’ve shared with me their experiences, thoughts, concerns, and dreams as I’ve molded the character of Coda, the teenage musician in my book-in-process.

Let me introduce you to the talented young guys of Glass House Point (from left to right in photo) – Dylan Methot, mandolin/guitar; Noah Feldman, violin/piano; Dylan Graham, vocals/guitar; E.J. Miner, drums; and Ian Campbell, bass. Unfortunately, E.J. and Noah were unable to be at the interview.

D.K. – You’ve been busy since I met you at Winter Haven’s Pickin’ In The Park over a year ago.

Dylan G. – It’s when we started to take off and be popularized. If we’d not gone to Pickin’ in the Park, who knows where we’d be right now. It’s where we met (mentors) Toni (Brown) and Ed (Munson.)

Dylan M. – It’s when the stars aligned. From then on, things just started happening

D.K. – How has your life changed since appearing at the Gram Parsons’ Derry Down event in June 2014?

Dylan M. – Once we got the band started and once we were really committed, it gave my life a firm direction of the way I wanted to go down the musical path. For the last couple of years I’ve had a drive to keep going down that road because before that my options were kinda open and I could just do whatever. But having some sort of purpose is pretty cool. It motivates you, especially when you have a solid group of guys who are your best friends too.

Dylan G. – It gives us an opportunity to make our own decision rather than do what we’re told to do. We’ve had the opportunity to join kinda like a subculture in which we can really express ourselves and make artistic decisions, and make decisions based on our beliefs rather than what we’re told to do.

D.K. – Last time we talked, all of you had different plans for the future. Where is each one of you at this point in time?

Dylan M. – I’m going to USF St. Pete. I’m going in undeclared pretty much just to weigh my options the first year and take the gen (general requirements) to get them out of the way. My plan A is the band and that’s why I’m in St. Pete, so I’m close enough so I can still practice and do shows with the band. I’m committed. I wanted to go to college so I know I definitely have a future and somewhere to go if things go awry. You can have a degree and still be in a band, especially in a place like St. Pete.

Dylan G. – In this industry, the way the progression works is so unknown. The way it unfolds isn’t the way you think it’s going to unfold. So I try not to figure out what my options are now. The one thing I do know is I love this band. I don’t know if it’s because I’m the singer or something, but I’ve kinda identified with Glass House Point to the point where it’s a part of me. So, it’s something I don’t want to leave behind. (Dylan G. is a high school senior.)

Ian – For the longest time it was like just playing music with my friends. We’ve all kind of found our bliss with the music and it’s kinda of like, personally for me, I want to keep it going too. Plan A, air quotes, is to be a rock star. Plan B is you know it’s still going to be through Glass House Point, but plan C, I’ll look at colleges, but it will have to do with music. (Ian is a high school senior.)

D.K. – How will it work with three of you still in high school while Dylan M. and E.J. are in college?

Dylan M. – It will be interesting. We’re so used to being with each other pretty much 24-7. Usually when we’re hanging out with people, it’s the guys in the band. I’ll be an hour commute away. I’m hoping I’ll be able to come back pretty consistently on the weekends. Hopefully, they can come over for shows in St. Pete.

D.K. – Now we get to what I’ve been dying to ask you about – the recording studio. Tell me a little bit about this project.

Dylan G. – After performing at the Polk Theatre, we knew we wanted to go into the studio to record some of our original stuff. Because I’d been recording our demos with some equipment I had in my home studio, we wanted the experience in the recording studio as sort of an ethos sort of deal, but also because we knew it was going to push us in a way we hadn’t been pushed before. So we came up with the money all by ourselves playing shows and working our butts off to get there. It’s been interesting for sure. It’s been a confidence booster. In a way now we’ve officially become recording artists. It was hours and hours of work. We’ve learned that a certain level of excellence can be achieved just by practicing our butts off.

Ian – For me, when we finished that last track it was kind of bittersweet. After all that hard work, all of the sudden it’s kind of like we’re leaving our old lives and starting a new chapter.

Dylan M. – It will be interesting to see how this new chapter unfolds.

Ian – I think what also really helped us find our sound was (recording engineer) Jonathan Gautier. He makes us feel like we’re honestly something special. I was having some trouble with some of the takes I had to do. I had to lay down some guitar parts that were ridiculously hard, incredibly tricky, and Jonathan was there to calm me down and make sure everything was all right. He was honest with me when the take was good. I feel like we’re something in there and that’s a good feeling.

D.K – So what I’m hearing you say is that in the time since I first met you in the park, people are taking you seriously.

Dylan M. – Yeah, we’ve constantly had to prove our worth with the shows we’ve been playing and the music we’ve been playing. We want to prove that we’re not just some band, you know? There are a million bands out there.

Dylan G. – We have to prove that this isn’t just some phase, that we’re not just teenagers just trying to get girls playing music.

D.K – Is there anything else you want folks to know about your recording? When will it be available? How will it be available?

Dylan G. – There are some things we have to pan out. A lot more time and money go into this than most people think. We’re not about to cut this and then drop it in about a week. The recording will be available for purchase in November/December. We have a lot of promoting to do. With promoting comes thousands and thousands of more dollars we’ll need to raise and funnel into the band. We’re making steady money now. But this is something people don’t understand: Glass House Point is in fact as much of a business as it is a band. We’re all business owners and, as of right now, we work for free because 100 percent of our money goes directly into our music so we can continue to push ourselves forward.

D.K. – How has your music changed since you first formed the band in 2014? Originally you were described as an indie folk rock band. How accurate is that?

Dylan G. – Indie folk rock isn’t super accurate. But we all love folk music and when we first started playing folk music, it was more like folk rock music with contemporary influences.

Dylan M. – When we started off, I was heavily playing the mandolin. Slowly but surely I started getting a little more into electric guitar, a little more lead kind of stuff. It took some time because I was not that good when I started. But as our music has evolved, so have the instruments we are playing. I have an electric mandolin, now, and an electric guitar. That’s been a change.

Dylan G. – The violin replacing the banjo I think has been pivotal. The banjo automatically locks you into a particular genre. With the violin, you can be playing fiddle kind of things and you can stay a folk band, or you can get an electric violin and you can be playing hard rock. The possibilities are kind of endless. So we’ve been able to take that and apply it to a freestyle type of music and we haven’t been locked in by a genre.

DK – What is your most memorable performance and why?

Dylan M. – I think we can all agree that Playing It Forward at the Polk Theatre was the one. Beforehand, we practiced so much making sure the set would be really good. We had like a little party at my house before. We had a whole crew of people to come over to support us. We rolled up to the Polk Theater with my old raggedy van full of all of the music equipment and they opened the back door and unloaded all this stuff. It was a really cool treatment that day.

D.K – What have been your greatest challenges getting to this point?

Dylan M. – I think one big thing that could derail everyone’s progress is doubting yourself and your abilities. Toward the beginning, I would not even call myself a musician. It didn’t seem possible, but we kept working. If you can overcome doubt, then I feel like a lot can happen. I’ve just been telling myself, “Don’t doubt your abilities.” It’s easier to doubt yourself than say, “I can do this.”

Note: Musicians on the Move will be a monthly Q & A spotlighting emerging musicians who cross my path. Glass House Point will be featured in this blog from time to time because the guys have been an integral part in developing the characters of Coda and his friends in my upcoming book. My plan is to follow their career on the blog as my book tracks Coda’s development as a musician.

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